"I'm tired of people..."

coming to me to pick a fight between people I care about who supposedly maybe one does something wrong and the other right, either way, for some reason.  Some people might just be hurt.  I mean, I am picked at even in a hairy situation.  My life is certainly not the same, and I've lost some support as a human being.  I'm tired of thinking of the "n" word thing and things chained to it because that's not the point in life for anyone...